We can't plan life. All we can do is be available for it.
Be careful. Think of the effects of what you say. Your words should be constructive, bring people together, not pull them apart.
African women in general need to know it's OK to be the way they are - to see the way they are as strength and to be liberated from fear and from silence.
Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough"